Hey 51 Easts' élite,

I’m sure you all heard the big news that “TEDx WWW” is going to be hosted in Qatar!

I was so excited when I saw Doha Film Institute tweeted the announcement of hosting the first TEDxWorldWideWorkshop from April 16 – 19 2011 where it will be an opportunity to connect, share best practices, discusses local and regional strategies and brainstorm new ideas and collaborations.

The TEDxWWW will be followed by a one day TEDxDoha event on the 20th April <3 where it brings together 700 members from the active TEDx global community to share their believe in the power of ideas in changing attitudes, lives and ultimately the world. It will be an opportunity to engage with ideas of the world's most inspired thinkers. The event will feature speakers and performers from the Middle Eastern region as well as other parts of the world, recommended by the TEDx community.

I’m very big fan of TEDx – which is an independently organized event where inspiring speakers address wide range of topics within science, culture, technology and entertainment. Speakers are given a maximum of 18 minutes to present their ideas in an innovative and engaging ways.

Usually my weekends wouldn’t go without being inspired through watching a number of Tedtalks. I even sometimes like to play old videos which would  still be new ideas to me. Luckily, last year I got the chance to actually experience one of the TEDxDoha event that was “TEDWomen” conference where Her Excellency Sheikha Al Mayassa bint Hamad bin Khalifa Al-Thani participated in a session titled ““Harmony and Discord: The role Women play in peace and security,” in Washington, DC via satellite from Doha. The event was full of inspiring stories and ideas that make you really wanna do something new in your life! ..I can’t wait for the upcoming TEDxDoha Event!



So, if you are an inspiring speaker or an inspired attendee, make sure to mark your calendars and keep checking the following websites for more information as registration opens in October.

For More details & FAQ: TEDxDoha , TEDxWWW
Follow twitter: @Dohafilm , @TEDxDoha


xoxo

Qatari gal


P.S I missed my blog and my loyal followers xx

Hey 51 Easts' élite,

Let me tell you what happened to me couple of weeks ago…

I went to Doha Clinic to do some checkups which required having my blood tested. So, I asked the doctor to check my Vitamin D too. Recent studies have shown that Arab women and children are deficient in vitamin D due to lack of exposure to the sun and bad diet. Besides, it was highlighted that the effect of the modest dress code of Arab women hinders exposure to direct sunlight. Therefore, I was curious to find out my vitamin D level.

The results came out after a week which was the 21st of Dec. And as expected, my vitamin D level was enormously LOW. So, the dr. wrote me Vitamin D prescription. Have I mentioned before that I have health insurance card?!

Anyhow, there’s a pharmacy right next to the clinic. So, I stepped by it and asked the pharmacist for my prescribed medicine. It was a box contains 30 pills for 30 days per doctor’s recommendation. Strangely, I found the pharmacist making different phone calls. I kept asking him what’s wrong?! After a while, he came to me stating that my health insurance card expires at the end of Dec, which is 10 days from that time. And since, the medicine is for 30 days, they will cover for me 10 pills, and I should pay for the other 20 pills. !?! :S -- I felt that calculation was weird.

I mean I wouldn’t mind paying the difference which didn’t cost much. But what I’m questioning now is the calculation: should the 1 box (contained 30 pills) considered as a whole and got covered by insurance on the prescribed date, or was it right to distribute the 30 pills over the 30 days and have it semi-covered?!

LOOL it sounds like a question in an accounting exam :P

Thoughts??


xoxo

Qatari gal

Hey 51 Easts' élite,

My 2010 was hell of a year - still not ready to talk about it – all I can say is...here's to a better year in 2011, Happy New year to all!

I thought of filling out this survey which has been commonly used in different social networks. Try it, I’d really love to read how you responded.

Nine things you wish you could say to nine different people:

1. I really miss you sooo much, It hurts not having you around…life is never the same without you...our life has changed forever… I love you

2. Your passive aggressive random attitude would eventually push people away from you

3. I really admire you and the things you do,its pleasure to know you in person.

4. I hope one day you ‘ll realize what you have been missing

5. You are a great person, and got lots of potential skills to be polished…don’t let others get into you and stop investing in the wrong people…invest in yourself you‘re the one who taught me that no one would love you like yourself.

6. I’m grateful for seeing you standing by my side, in the hardest days I’ve faced in my life, can’t thank you enough.

7. I'm worried about you. But you seem like you're on the right track which comforts me.

8. I wish you can be more expressive and really can tell me what’s in your head

9. It really hurt that you don’t mean what you say. I'm tired of keeping in touch with you and not having that returned but I know it'll never change.

Eight things about yourself:

1. I love experiencing new places

2. I get really freaked out if someone behind me is running. There is just some weird part of me that is convinced they're running after me

3. I love smart conversations.

4. I keep small journal in my bag that has my favorite quotes.

5. I love board games and especially doing puzzles.

6. For me there’s a huge difference between waking up at 5:55 & 6:00 a.m on a working day.

7. I usually save documents or photos as “dfsdfsfsadf” coz I’m too lazy to write a proper name :P

8. I love how little kids believe practically everything you say,, sooo cute :”)

Seven things that cross your mind a lot:

1. Family

2. Dad

3. Future

4. Life issues

5. Work

6. Blogging

7. Responsibilities

Six things you wish you never did:

Regret used to occupy a big part of my wishful thinking. I spent so many times and moments thinking of alternative scenarios of how differently things would have been if it never happened in the way it did…. But thank God that I made peace with that long time… Because, I wouldn't have met the people I know or be the person I am today if I hadn't gone through all the challenges I encounter. I wouldn't have been able to understand and guide others through their bad times without my experiences. Therefore, I truly believe that we are the outcome of our experiences and our actions helped to shape who we are today.

Five Things You Always Have With You:

1. Wallet

2. Blackberry

3. Sunglasses

4. Chocolate

5. laptop

Four Bad Habits:

1. I always leave things till the last minute

2. I hardly let go of old stuff as I emotionally get attached to.

3. I need to work on time allocation for activities

4. I should learn to say no without feeling guilty

Three Favorite Memories:

1. Doha Asian Games opening ceremony day

2. High school graduation

3. London/Paris trips

Two things you want to do before you die:

1. Go to Hajj

2. Be part of a big national accomplishment for Qatar

One Confession:

I learned no matter how you well-plan things, there will always be something out of control that might result to a twist in your fortune. Don’t fight it and learn to accept what fate might bring. You never know, it might turn out into a blessing in disguise ;)


xoxo


Qatari gal

Hey 51 Easts' élite,

I know my blog's been quiet lately – my apologies. So....it took me a while, well actually months to write a post. It’s certainly wasn't intentional, but life has been so crazy. Lots of stuff happened and I got caught in circles trying to figure out how to balance between all the things that needed to be done.

2010 was a tough year for me… I’d definitely dedicate a whole post for that! This has by far been the most stressful year of my life. All of that led to the lack of staying focus and honesty I Basically, felt like I need to "recharge my battery," as they say.

Thank you guys for sticking around and to those who dropped me mails, Facebook messages to ask about me :)  I can’t describe how I felt but it really meant a lot to me…!

I have about thousands of posts queued up in my brain, but translating your thoughts into words take forever to write, and I really NEED to work on dedicating more time for writing my thoughts down!

You know that feeling where you have so much to do and not enough time to do any of it? And more than that, you don't even know where to start. Do you have any suggestions as how to balance time between blogging while having other things going on?

Advice is much appreciated. Happy Weekend!

xoxo


Qatari gal

Hey 51 Easts' élite,

I was drafting my own list of things that I need to do and accomplish in my 20s before I turn 30... Here it is:


1. Study Graphic Design

2. Learn to speak French Perfectly.

3. Make a difference in someone’s life.

4. Become a featured blogger.

5. Write & publish a novel.

6. Own a beach house.

7. Visit all “medieval” seven wonders ( Machu Picchu, Chichen Itza, ,Taj Mahal, Great Wall of China, Northern lights, Bagan Temples and Pagodas, Teotihuacan)

8. Start a business

9. Banguee jumping.

10. Cook meal from scratch.

11. Try to explore new sport ( Yoga, Horse riding, shooting)

12. Give up understanding the complexity of men egos.

13. Be less sensitive

14. Fall in love <3

15. Appreciate the few genuine people I have in my life

16. Depreciate people who consume my energy.

17. Build my own website

18. Get Masters

19. East less fast food, because at this rate I’m going die before 30.

20. Be cliche, and do all the things that are supposedly incredibly romantic and cute.



That's my to-do list, I can't wait to cross off all of the above items :D

So, what about yours?

 
xoxo


Qatari gal


Hey 51 Easts' élite,

Don't you just hate it when people take you for granted? Being always there, giving your best assuming by doing such you will be more appreciated. Many friends have complained to me about:

• Why when my friends plan something, I'd be called frequently short-noticed, while X get invited in reasonable time, and more at her convenient. Although, I am closer to them than her, but they do care to watch their time around her, return her calls and even appreciate X when she does/says little things. While, I'm the one who deserve to be treated and be favored since, I do the same for them.

• A girl keeps whining about her fiancé not returning all her calls or he sounds too cold when they talk… and she always keep sms’ing him to show that she cares. However, she never understands why she doesn't get her ROI- return of investment- and no matter what she does, it always fire back at her.

• Being most helpful son/daughter to your parents and always looking out for them, but whenever your sis/bro occasionally do something for them, they keep talking about it all the time and be appreciated and thankful for such thing that might sound too little to what you have been offering all time.

• Being dedicated employee and spend more time and effort on work even on the expense of your time with family; however, you would most probably end up having same recognition and treatment as those who don't.

I believe that regardless of the type of relationship you've been taken granted for, you can always solve it by using the scarcity principle. Business student/sales people know how using scarcity increase sales and profits. There's this book I bought from Virgin Megastores for Robert Greene, The 48 Laws of Power. In law 16 (Use absence to increase respect and honor), the author advises that too much circulation makes the price go down: The more you are seen and heard from, the more common you appear. If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, and more admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.

In summary of this law, he explained that everything in the universe depends on absence and presence. A strong presence will draw power and attention to you - you shine more brightly than those around you. But a point is inevitably reached, where too much presence creates the opposite effect: The more you are seen and heard from, the more your value degrades. You become a habit. No matter how hard you try to be different, subtly, without you knowing why, people respect you less and less. At the right moment, you must learn to withdraw yourself, before they unconsciously push you away. It is a game of hide-and-seek.

The effect of this law can most easily be appreciated in matters of love and seduction. In the early stages of an affair, the lover's absence stimulates your imagination, forming sort of a mystery surrounding aura. But this aura fades, when you know too much, when your imagination no longer has room to roam. The loved one becomes a person like anyone else, a person whose presence is taken for granted. To prevent this you need to starve the other person of your presence. Force their respect by threatening them with the possibility that they will lose you.

Naploleon was recognizing the law of absence and presence when he said, "If I am often seen at the theater, people will cease to notice me." Today, in a world full of presence through the flood of images, the game of withdrawal is much more powerful. We rarely know when to withdraw, and nothing seems private, so we are awed by anyone, who is able to disappear, by choice. Novelists J. D. Salinger and Thomas Pynchon have created cultlike followings by knowing when to disappear.

An everyday side of this law is the law of scarcity in the field of economics. By withdrawing something from the market, you create instant value (remember the egg crisis I Doha ;)). In seventeenth century Holland, the royal family wanted to make the tulip into a status symbol. Making the flower scarce, almost impossible to obtain, they sparked what was later called tulipomania, when a single flower sold for more than its weight in gold. Also, brand like Hermes has benefited from its long-term strategy of scarcity management.

Expand the law of scarcity to your own skills. Make what you are offering the world rare and hard to find, and you instantly increase its value.

There always comes a moment, when those in power overstay their welcome. We have grown tired of them, lost respect for them; we see them as no different from the rest of mankind, which is to say that we see them as rather worse, since we compare their current status on our eyes with their former status. (I could use Sabah, the Lebanese singer, as a good example for this :P ) There is an art to knowing when to retire. If it is done right, you regain the respect you had lost and retain a part of your power.

To conclude, if you make yourself too available then the aura of power you have created for yourself will wear away. Now it’s time to turn the game around; make yourself less accessible to increase the value of your presence. But, don’t abuse this!

xoxo

Qatari gal
Hey 51 Easts' élite,

I know that most of the developing countries are very influenced and impressed by the advanced western societies. Therefore, we hire expat hoping to build capability and capacity and achieve level of knowledge transfer to local employees. However, China has gone so far with their obsession! They started to set up companies to rent white men to pose as fake employees or business partners!

I read an article that was featured in CNN "Chinese companies 'rent' white foreigners".

Beijing, China (CNN) --In China, white people can be rented. For a day, a weekend, a week, up to even a month or two, Chinese companies are willing to pay high prices for fair-faced foreigners to join them as fake employees or business partners.

Some call it "White Guy Window Dressing." To others, it's known as the "White Guy in a Tie" events, "The Token White Guy Gig," or, simply, a "Face Job."

And it is, essentially, all about the age-old Chinese concept of face. To have a few foreigners hanging around means a company has prestige, money and the increasingly crucial connections -- real or not -- to businesses abroad.

"Face, we say in China, is more important than life itself," said Zhang Haihua, author of "Think Like Chinese." "Because Western countries are so developed, people think they are more well off, so people think that if a company can hire foreigners, it must have a lot of money and have very important connections overseas. So when they really want to impress someone, they may roll out a foreigner."Or rent one.

Last year, Jonathan Zatkin, an American actor who lives in Beijing, posed as the vice president of an Italian jewelry company that had, allegedly, been in a partnership with a Chinese jewelry chain for a decade.

Zatkin was paid 2,000 yuan (about $300) to fly, along with a couple of Russian models, to a small city in the central province of Henan where he delivered a speech for the grand opening ceremony of a jewelry store there.

"I was up on stage with the mayor of the town, and I made a speech about how wonderful it was to work with the company for 10 years and how we were so proud of all of the work they had done for us in China," Zatkin said. "They put up a big bandstand and the whole town was there and some other local muckety-mucks." The requirements for these jobs are simple.
1. Be white.
2. Do not speak any Chinese, or really speak at all, unless asked.
3. Pretend like you just got off of an airplane yesterday.

Those who go for such gigs tend to be unemployed actors or models, part-time English teachers or other expats looking to earn a few extra bucks. Often they are jobs at a second- or third-tier city, where the presence of pale-faced foreigners is needed to impress local officials, secure a contract or simply to fulfill a claim of being international.

"Occasionally companies want a foreign face to go to meetings and conferences or to go to dinners and lunches and smile at the clients and shake people's hands," read an ad posted by a company called Rent A Laowai (Chinese for "foreigner") on the online classified site thebeijinger.com.

It continued: "There are job opportunities for girls who are pretty and for men who can look good in a suit."
People like Brad Smith. When Smith -- the nom de plume of the Beijing-based American actor -- answered CNN's phone call on a recent morning, he was standing outside a meeting room at a Ramada Inn in Hangzhou, a city about 100 miles outside of Shanghai. Today's job: Pretend to be an architect from New York and give design plans for a new museum to local officials.

"They have not told me what my name is today. I think it is Lawrence or something," said Smith -- unlike some jobs, no fake business cards were given to hand out.

Earlier that morning he went over his script with his Chinese "business partners" at a Kentucky Fried Chicken. "It says, 'Good morning distinguished leaders. It is my privilege to participate in this program'," said Smith, who asked that his real name not be used for fear it could jeopardize future jobs.
If Smith is asked a question, he is told to pretend to answer as his "translator" pretends to understand.

Occasionally, these jobs can go awry. Smith said 18 months ago Beijing police showed up at his apartment after a financial company he worked at for a couple of months in Xi'an, a city in western China, allegedly swindled millions of yuan out of clients.

"That company said I was the guy in charge," he said. "I didn't even remember the company's name. After that, I decided I was never going to use my passport again with these fake companies. The small gigs are much less dangerous." Sometimes companies will hire Caucasians simply to sit in the office a few hours a day near the window where clients and customers can see them.

I'm sure that lots of unemployed actors would seize China as an opportunity now! :P

I wonder if such trend would be starting up in the region.


xoxo

Qatari gal